Men leave their partners for many reasons. Hereís an overview of some of the reasons why your Ex may have left you. This list is not meant to meant to make you feel bad but rather to give you an indication of what you really need to work on if you expect to have a hope of getting your Ex back. Sit back and think how you behaved with him. Were you bossy and demanding?
It may be easy to think he is to blame but actually itís you who may have drawn a wedge between you. If you’ve ever said to your Ex, do this or do that,í especially in front of his friends it is very likely that this has chipped away slowly at his self esteem or even made him feel quite angry towards you. Why are you bossy? Itís time to understand why youíre like that. It is probably been the case that you donít really see how bossy you are. Now is the time to start.
Were you being needy?
Have you asked way too much of your partner?
Dealing with a needy adult is no different than dealing with a small child sometimes and if you simply canít cope with various things life throws at you without your partnerís help that could be a problem for you both.
Did you act superior to your Ex?
Some relationships start with one partner having more than the other in terms of money and possessions.
Acting superior can really belittle your partner. Itís best to try and enjoy things together and make them feel a part of the extras that you have.
Are you boring?
If staying at home and not doing anything fun sounds like you (and be honest if it does) you should really focus on the fact that your Ex may have wanted to spend time with you doing really cool stuff.
List a few things you could do together and when youíre ready to make contact again, you may want to suggest you do these things as friends.
This may open the door to more of a relationship building again.
